I would like to use this platform to express my honesty. At times people keep quiet in fear of the reactions others may have to the information being received, in other words "I'm not trying to hurt your feelings but I want to keep it 100%." I don't want you hating me for telling you the truth. People want honesty but can't deal with real facts. Growth is learning how to communicate with others and learning how to control your reaction to the information.
Having a conversation and not agreeing with a person is one thing, having an argument with a person because you don't agree with them is an other. Many times people flip into argument mode because they don't agree with what a person is saying. You don't have to agree, but giving someone enough respect to hear them out is important. Also getting your self all worked up isn't helping the situation frankly it's just a waste of energy. Use that energy for something more positive than trying to prove someone wrong.
Grow up, and get over it!
You don't always have to be right, but the fact you think you have to be just shows you have some underlining issues that might stem from your past or childhood. Take some time to work on your Temper, Mental Health, and Peace of Mind.
Alright now that you received the memo about what's to come please remember this isn't to piss you off but to make you aware of how you process things.
How you react is completely on you. Choosing to take the information given, as positive prospective shows growth. Not everyone is your enemy, you are entitled to your opinions as am I.
For some time now I have come to the conclusion, people to don't like to hear the truth. It blows my mind when someone asks for an option on their situation and continues to make poor choices. I cant tell you how to live your life but do not waste my time or energy ,when I could be doing something more productive.
"We were put on this earth to Learn from each other and help grow towards our better selves."
I believe in the motto "The truth will make you stronger" just mind your tone. I've learned over the years that I've unloaded my opinions on people with out asking, and that was ignorant of me. I apologize for sharing my two cents with out asking "Are you venting or would you like my opinion?"
Learning to ask if someone was just venting, lets people have a sound board to release whats on their minds and maybe even put themselves at peace, with out having to hear someones opinion right after.
I actually learned a bit of that from a friend and from the Netflix movie "Wine Country" featuring Amy Poehler, Mya Rudolph, Rachel Dratch, Ana Gasteyer, Paula Pell, and Tina Fay. It's a funny movie I recommend checking it out. Rachel Dratch's character Rebecca is the one that says it. The Ladies of SNL!
I'm always learning something new when Tina Fay is involved.
I watched 2 seasons of "The Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt" and learned that if you count to 10 when doing anything it doesn't seem that long. I took that with me to the gym, 10 squats is easy 50 seems hard but if you do 5 set of 10 that's easier then done. That one is for the folks still using excuses at the gym, say less do more.
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